it wasn’t even really a bad day… there were plenty of good moments, but there were some bullshit ones too. There’s offensive shit on my dash and I feel incredibly pissed right now.
If people didn’t care to dictate how women dress and act they wouldn’t say shit about it. If you really just didn’t like girls for their behavior you would stop associating with them. You wouldn’t tell them “stop being a slut/don’t get an abortion/don’t act out of your role/what the fuck ever,” there would be no reason to.
You are jealous, and you feel threatened. I am unapologetically opinionated, I create and do things for my own benefit, I dress like five different fucking people depending on the day of the week and how I feel. When you say I’m weird or when you say what I do is wrong, or it’s slutty or bitchy, you are obviously picking up on the fact that I am confident enough in who I am to express it. You wish you could do what I do, and you know that I am capable of fabulous things you can’t even dream of. You’re scared, so you try to make me the bad guy.
Slut shaming shows your weakness. Any kind of prejudice does, it always has. But as the years go on it is getting harder and harder to hide this because more people know. We can see it and hear it and we’re getting tired of it. Get ready to be honest about your bigotry or get over it, there is not going to be an in-between.
